I am proud to say that I have had the same best friend for over thirty years. While that may make me seem like an old woman, I am too proud of the fact that I have had the same best friend in my life since I was a child to worry about people judging me for my age. I know that there are lots of people who use the term best friend quite loosely (and by loosely, I mean that they apply it to multiple people at the same time), but when I tell someone about my best friend, they know exactly who I am talking about (because I always use that term to refer to my true best friend). When it comes to my best friend, I think it is a title that she has more than earned. The reason I say that is because not only has she been through everything with me, but there are times when I feel like she truly knows me better than I know myself. It may be hard for you to understand this if you don’t have someone in your life like my best friend, but believe me when I say that I’m not exaggerating in terms of the depth of the bond that the two of us have developed with each other.
I think one of the most interesting things about being so close with someone for the duration of your lifetime is that you get to experience all of the different things that they go through in their own lives from a first person point of view. While there are definitely times when this can be difficult to do, this can of experience can also be very useful when you learn from it and apply those lessons to your own life.
One of the hardest things I had to go through with my friend was when she got divorced from her first husband. I don’t want to get into the details of what happened, but let’s just say that her husband turned into a man that I don’t think anyone would respect. I realize that you are going to assume my opinion is biased, but if you asked anyone to look at the facts of their divorce, I am confident they would agree she got the very short end of the stick.
Since her husband abandoned her and their two children after the divorce, she was stuck bearing the financial burden of all three of them. While my husband and I did our best to help, it simply wasn’t enough, and she got into a very bad financial situation.
Fortunately, although she struggled for so long, it seems she’s finally making her way out of the hole. She’s committed to getting back on track, and I am confident that she will achieve that goal. For example, it was just three months ago when she obtained a bad credit mortgage refinance. Although I always had faith in her, there were plenty of people who said she wouldn’t be able to get a bad credit mortgage refinance. However, I was so proud of her when she proved those people wrong and obtained a bad credit mortgage refinance, which has already saved her a lot of money!
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